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Students complain over sexual fidelity before marriage

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A lecturer at Xidian University in Xi'an, Shaanxi province, has called on students in her female-only class to sign a pledge that they will not have sex before marriage.

近日,在陕西西安电子科技大学只针对女生开设的某选修课上,任课讲师要求学生签署拒绝婚前性行为承诺书。

According to a student who took the optional course, only two students signed the card. The student, who didn't want to be named, was not comfortable saying whether she signed the promise.

据选修此课的某位匿名学生表示,班上只有两名同学签署了承诺卡,当问及她是否签署了这份承诺卡时,这位同学面露尴尬不愿透露。

"The course was mainly about how to establish healthy concepts of relationships and marriage," she said. "It was open only to female students."

这位同学说道,“这门课程是为学校女生开设的,主要讲授如何建立健康的男女关系及婚姻概念”。

She said the guarantee also included a promise that the students would not have extramarital sexual relations.

这位同学还补充说,这份承诺书还要求学生承诺婚后拒绝婚外性行为。

The lecturer didn't force anyone to sign. However, many students still disliked being faced with such a promise.

老师虽然没有强迫学生签署,但是不少学生表示自己仍然不喜欢面对一份这样的承诺。

Li Yuan, a college student at another university in Xi'an, said the lecturer's behavior violated privacy, and she would never sign anything like that.

西安另一所大学的学生李媛表示,这位老师的行为侵犯了个人隐私,她表示自己不愿签署这样的东西。

Nevertheless, parents showed their understanding of the school and the teacher.

不过,家长对学校和老师表示理解。

Chen Jin, the mother of a college student, said that as a science and technology school Xidian University has many more male students than females, so it is understandable that the school wants to protect female students by strengthening moral education.

一位学生家长陈女士表示,西安电子科技大学是一所理工科高校,学校男生人数比女生多,因此,学校通过加强道德教育以保护女学生的做法是可以理解的。

"Both the school and teacher have good intentions. Even though the students who made the promises may not follow through, it is a good reminder," Chen said.

“学校和老师的出发点是好的,即使签署了承诺书的学生未必能一直践行下去,但这是个很好的提醒”,这位陈女士表示。

Wang Changshou, head of the Shaanxi Academy of Social Sciences, said it is necessary to strengthen moral education surrounding marriage, but it is not appropriate to ask students to sign a promise.

陕西社科院院长王长寿表示,加强学生的婚姻道德教育是有必要的,但是要求学生签署这样的承诺就欠缺妥当了。

He said it is not fair to only open the class for female students because relationships and marriage involve two people. Male students should also be educated, he said. "It is an obsolete concept to curtail only women's behavior, but not men's," he said.

他还表示,只针对女学生开设这样的课程是有失公允的,因为两性和婚姻关系牵涉两个人,男学生也应该接受这样的教育。“只限制女性的行为,对男性却没有要求是一种迂腐过时的概念”,他说道。

"It is correct to stay loyal in marriage, but sex before marriage should not be prohibited," Wang said.

王先生还表示,“在婚姻关系中保持忠诚是应该的,但是婚前性行为不应该被禁止”。

Sun Shan, an associate professor at Northwest University of Political Science and Law in Xi'an, said even though the students signed the promise, it doesn't have any legal force because loyalty starts after a marriage is established.

西安西北大学政治学与法学专业的副教授孙山表示,即使学生签署了这样的承诺书,也不具有法律效力,因为双方忠诚是在婚姻关系建立以后才开始的。

"Whether a woman has had sex before marriage or not is private and protected by law, and no one has the right to know," he said.

他说,“无论女性在婚前是否有过性行为,这都是个人隐私,受法律保护,他人无权知悉。”

2016-06-23

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