Podcast│Do you have any nuǎn nán around?

Zhōng wén lǐ，"nuǎn nán" yì cí shì zhǐ néng gěi rén wēn nuǎn gǎn jué de nán zi。Tā men tōng cháng hěn tǐ tiē、huì zuò fàn、huì zuò jiā wù、huì zhào gù rén, zuì zhòng yào de shì， tā men néng hěn hǎo de lǐ jiě bié rén de qíng gǎn 。

中文里，"暖男"一词是指能给人温暖感觉的男子。他们通常很体贴、会做饭、会做家务、会照顾人，最重要的是，他们能很好地理解别人的情感。

In Chinese, "暖男 (nuǎn nán, sunshine boy)" refers to a man who makes others feel warm.  These men usually tend to be considerate towards their families and are good at cooking. More importantly, they can fully understand others' feelings.

Nuǎn nán yào jù bèi sān xiàng tè zhì：

暖男要具备三项特质：

Being a "暖男 (nuǎn nán)" needs the following three features:

Yīshì rèn láo rèn yuàn。"Nuǎn nán" néng gòu yìng fù nǚ xìng de gè zhǒng qíng xù，bìng qiě jǐ yǔ wēn nuǎn de huái bào。

一是任劳任怨。"暖男"能够应付女性的各种情绪，并且给予温暖的怀抱。

First, being willing to take on any burden. A "暖男 (nuǎn nán)" will always be there to give a warm hug when dealing with some unreasonable emotions from girls.

èr shì qíng shāng gāo。Yǒu xiē nǚ xìng huì yòng gōng jī、fā nù děng fāng shì lái yǎn gài nèi xīn de hài pà。Bú guò，nuǎn nán kě yǐ tǐ huì tā men zhēn shí de gǎn shòu，kàn chū nǚ rén men shì yòng è liè de fāng shì yǎn gài nèi xīn de cuì ruò。

二是情商高。有些女性会用攻击、发怒等方式来掩盖内心的害怕。不过，暖男可以体会她们真实的感受，看出女人们是用恶劣的方式掩盖内心的脆弱。

Second, they have high emotional quotient. Some women tend to take aggressive and even manly measures, like attacking and getting angry, to conceal their fears. However, "暖男 (nuǎn nán)" can see through this behavior and know what these women really want.

Sān shì lǐng dǎo néng lì。Nuǎn nán bù guāng néng lǐ jiě nǚ rén hái xū yào jiān chí zì jǐ de xiǎng fǎ，fǒu zé nǚ rén wú fǎ dé dào ān quán gǎn。Yí gè "nuǎn nán" néng zài nǚ rén qíng xù bù hǎo shí yǐn dǎo tā men，tóng shí hái yào jiān chí zì jǐ de yuán zé。

三是领导能力。暖男不光能理解女人，还需要坚持自己的想法，否则女人无法得到安全感。一个"暖男"能在女人情绪不好时引导她们，同时还要坚持自己的原则。

Third, great leadership. A "暖男 (nuǎn nán)" should not only understand women, but also stick to their principles, or women still can't feel safe. A "暖男 (nuǎn nán)" is able to hold a woman tightly when she is in a restless mood, letting her know that everything is going to be okay, while sticking to his own principles.

"Nuǎn nán" yì cí shì wǎng luò shí dài de chǎn wù，tóng shí yě shuō míng wǎng luò ràng rén yǔ rén de jiāo liú biàn dé gèng fāng biàn，dàn rén yǔ rén zhī jiān de jù lí què gèng yuǎn le， rén men kě wàng de shì yì zhǒng xiàn shí shēng huó zhōng gèng jiā hé xié yǔ qīn mì de guān xi 。

"暖男"一词是网络时代的产物，同时也说明网络让人与人的交流变得更方便，但人与人之间的距离却更远了，人们渴望的是一种现实生活中更加和谐与亲密的关系。

Chinese word "暖男 (nuǎn nán)" comes from the Internet, showing how people are yearning for an intimate relationship between human beings in an indifferent society.

Nà me，nǐ shēn biān yǒu nuǎn nán ma？

那么，你身边有暖男吗？

So, do you have a 暖男 around you?

Keywords: 暖男、体贴、应付、引导